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5 day becoming her challenge
designed to help high school and college girls get clear on who they want to be and how to show up for themselves
You’re a high school senior or college girl in that in-between chapter of life- so ready to go out and discover who you are, but still scared about what exactly that means for you.
Everyone keeps asking, “What's next, where you're going, what you're doing, who you want to be… and you smile nervously thinking… I have no idea.
In fact, you’re actually kinda terrified because no one taught you how to figure out who you are when everything around you is changing. You’ve spent years focused on external validation- good grades, achievements, being liked, that now you don’t know who you are without it.
That’s why I created this Challenge.
For 5 days, you'll work through small, daily tweaks that help you feel more grounded and confident in who you are and start to build habits and goals that will guide you to the girl you are becoming.
Not to try and complete an entire life overhaul in a week, but to show you that small changes help you walk into what’s next with confidence instead of fear.
THIS is for you if…
You aren’t quite sure where you fit in in your own life
You’re nervous about not having all the answers when someone asks “So what’s next for you after school?”
You don’t feel prepared for life after being a student
You feel like you’ve outgrown who you used to be but aren’t sure what the next step is
You feel like your aren’t good enough to try new things or scared that if it doesn’t work out, you’re a failure
You feel like everyone else seems to have their life planned out better than you
You want something simple, practical, and actionable — not another Pinterest board of quotes
Each day, you’ll learn a new step that builds off the one before it
Each day, you’ll learn a new step that builds off the one before it-
DAY ONE: STARTING THE DAY ON YOUR TERMS
Build a morning routine and mindset that start your day with you, not your phone or everyone else's expectations.
DAY TWO: PROTECTING YOUR ENERGY
Figure out where your energy is leaking and start keeping more of it for yourself.
DAY THREE: DITCHING FEAR AND COMPARISON
Learn how fear shows up for you and how to work through it
DAY FOUR: SETTING GOALS FOR WHO SHE IS
Get clear on who you want to be, not just what you want to do, and turn it into real first steps.
DAY FIVE: HABITS TO HELP YOU BECOME HER
Lock in the small habits that make her who you are every day, not just someday.
You'll get a short email to walk you through the focus of the day. Use your guide to follow along and implement each step.
That's it. 10-15 minutes a day.
get a copy of the mini guide to follow along
after 5 days, you’ll walk away with…
A simple morning routine that works for you so that you can begin each day calm and grounded
A way to catch and reframe negative thoughts so that you can stop letting them dictate your every move
A clear picture of where you're leaking energy and how to protect it so that you can stop spending your time on things that don't fit who you're becoming
A 4-step tool for working through fear and comparison in real time so that you can scroll Instagram without feeling like everyone else has it figured out except you
A goal and action plan that actually moves you towards what you want and helps you make decisions about your future even if you don’t have it all figured out
Daily habits that allow you to begin stepping out of the old chapter and start living in the new one
I’m Ashley, and I spent most of my adult life pretending I was ok, when inside, I was crumbling. I had no idea the power I had over my own mind which bullied me daily- feeling like I wasn’t pretty enough, that I was too much, that I wasn’t capable.
But that all changed 7 years ago when I learned how to stop being my own worst enemy and started taking responsibility for who and what I allowed into my life. I got to decide where I was going on my own terms, despite what everyone else was doing.
After working closely with young women for over 12 years, I’m here to teach them that they don’t have to have it all figured out- they just have to become their own biggest cheerleader!